Dr. Holly Parker
Dr. Parker, or Dr. Holly, as she’s more playfully known, is a psychologist with a passion for walking alongside people as they invest in their future selves by cultivating a more enriching, vibrant life in the here and now.
She obtained her Ph.D. in experimental psychopathology from Harvard University, where she conducted research and was a Karen Stone Fellow and Sackler Scholar. Filled with a desire to
help people uplift themselves through human connection too, Dr. Parker re-specialized in clinical psychology at the University of Massachusetts, Amherst.
Presently, she engages in clinical work, teaching, public education, and writing. She’s a lecturer at Harvard University, where she teaches the popular course The Psychology of Close Relationships. She’s also a practicing psychologist and an associate director of training
at the Edith Nourse Rogers Memorial Veterans Hospital. In her clinical practice, Dr. Parker has worked with people across an array of issues, including thriving relationships, self-esteem, trauma, mood, anxiety, emotion regulation, health and lifestyle, addiction, grief and loss, and those varied spaces in life that are formidable yet ultimately freeing to face.
She is the author of two books. When Reality Bites: How Denial Helps and What to Do When It Hurts (Hazelden Press, 2016) is a guided tour through the benefits and the pitfalls of denial. If We’re Together, Why Do I Feel So Alone?: How to Build Intimacy with an Emotionally Unavailable Partner (NAL, 2017) accompanies readers hoping to mend emotional unavailability in their romantic relationship.
She also delves into an assortment of topics devoted to relationships and personal growth in her blog and in media interviews through outlets such as SELF Magazine, Bustle, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Prevention, The Chicago Tribune, ABC News, The Saturday Evening Post, and Medical Daily.
She lives in Boston with Guille, her extremely cool husband and kindred spirit, relishes running, traveling, studying Spanish and French, time travel stories, and Death in Paradise, and has no skill whatsoever in pet training.